Yes. STIs don't always cause symptoms, so your partner(s)/ex-partners may not know they have an infection. This means that they might give the infection back to you or spread it to others. Some STIs can cause very serious health problems such as infertility if they're not treated - so it's ethical and fair to make sure any current and former partners are informed.
You should tell anyone you've had sexual contact with - including oral, vaginal or anal sex - in the last three months, or as advised by your doctor or nurse. Your healthcare provider can help you identify who you need to tell.
If you test positive for an STI, let any current and previous sexual partners know as soon as possible.
Most people find it hard to talk to partners about this but it is very important. Sexual health clinic staff can help you plan how you might tell a partner.
There are many ways of telling partners:
If you prefer, your sexual health clinic can do it for you. This is called partner notification - the clinic won't give your name, but will say they believe the person should go for testing and treatment.
Burnett Foundation Aotearoa has a handy online 'message generator' which offers suggested ways to tell your partner/s if you have an STI.
Think about how you would like to be told yourself. Although it isn’t the best news to get, the conversation often isn't a negative one. Lots of people would rather know that they have an STI and respond positively and with understanding.
Sometimes people don't feel safe to tell their partner(s) that they have an STI. If you're worried about how your partner/ex-partner is going to react or you feel unsafe, you can speak to your doctor or nurse, or a support service that helps people in harmful relationships.
In some cases, you might not have a current or previous sexual partner's contact details, but it is really important to let them know if you've tested positive for an STI. You can try to send them a message through a mutual friend, or contact them on social media and ask them to get in touch with you as soon as possible.
Just the Facts is brought to you by the Sexually Transmitted Infections Education Foundation (STIEF) - an initiative funded by the Te Whatu Ora - Health NZ to educate New Zealanders about STIs.
The medical information in Just the Facts is based on the
STIEF
and NZ Sexual Health Society Guidelines for the management of STIs.
Te Whatu Ora - Health NZ supports the use of these clinical guidelines, developed by clinical experts and professional associations to guide clinical care in Aotearoa.
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